Well, let us be blunt, there are usually more guys than gals at our parties...Bi guys like guys and girls...there are bi girls at the parties too, who also like girls... So you now have guys and girls both trying to hook up with the girls...if the bi guys don't make a female connection, no biggie, they can play among themselves, and visa versa.

Now add this... Many of the women who frequent our parties do like more than one guy and I would say most certainly do LIKE to see guy on guy play.   So, if 2 or more guys are playing with a girl they usually have no problem touching each other in any way.

The whole reason we offer a "Bi" party is to give bi people their own party. That being said, Straight swinger's parties have a low tolerance of bi men and you would seldom see a gay man at a swinger's club/party. Yes, bi men are looked down upon openly at a swinger's party.

We welcome gay men and women here... because m/m and f/f is cool here. But when a straight male does come he is one more factor in the pool of people competing for the attention of a female who is already in short demand.

 

Now add the straight factor and this is where the question really comes in. There are bi tolerant and bi friendly men out there. If while having a 3 some or moresome and if some male touching happens, these guys are totally cool with that. Heck sometimes to get close or hold a particular position they will lock arms or put an arm around a man for support. Men have even helped guide or place a cock in a person's hole.

That being said, if you come, understand a man may approach you and possibly touch you in a friendly or sexual manner or casually touch in a multi-person scene, obviously intending no ill will towards you. In fact, it's a compliment. So don't freak out or get upset. "NO, means NO" and it applies to everyone. Just say no.

SO, here is the final thought to answer the question. If you are a straight guy with a bi girl, come on.  If your a straight guy keeping a bi guy company to give him some moral or immoral support, come on.  BUT, honestly if you are NOT bi-friendly or bi tolerant and a straight up straight guy coming by yourself and the thought that any contact with a man is creepy, as the producers of these events we would tell you, "This is NOT the party for you" and suggest you find a straight party to attend.